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So the question was posed to Supa Sister, that since she seemed so diverse (whatever the fuck that means...is it code for "atypical black girl? whatever. it's still kind of a bullshit statement) had she ever considered dating outside of her race. The questioner then added that if I hadn't, that I probably wanted to, just for the sake of being able to say that 'yeah, I dipped my chocolate in some vanilla once.' So okay, was this dude trying to punk me into fucking a white boy? Strange.
Anyway. The answer is yes, I've considered it, and years ago actually came thisclose to taking it to the next level with a good friend of mine who happened to be white. He was an engineer, cool as fuck, good-looking, intelligent, passionate, madd intense, kinda wild and funny as hell - the Supa Friends and I dubbed him White Tupac 'cause he just off the chizzle like that... and now that I think about it, he was probably some kind of fucking genius combined with an undiagnosed adult ADD or bipolar disorder or something. Anyway. White Tupac was refreshing and lots and lots of fun. Despite/including the fact he was kinda out there. His homies were a bunch of industry crackas, and White Pac was always inviting Supa to some industry party or after-hours joint up in the Hollywood Hills somewhere. (side note* - we joked endlessly about the eerie, striking, sad resemblance White Tupac bore to Ron Goldman. (You know- dude O.J. killed).
Anyway. Me and White Pac actually discussed, at length, the pros/cons of us hooking up intimately. We talked about our mutual curiosities, the socio-political aspects of interracial dating, our erogenous zones, alla that. But alas, for a variety of reasons - the main ones being that I later discovered he had a penchant for sleeping with strippers and was also battling an increasing Xtacy habit - we never did it.
And Supa will admit that even though the basic attraction was there - the idea of an aroused naked white male approaching her African imported, melanin-blessed, lovely bronze body conjured up all kinds of visuals that to this day make me throw up in my mouth a little.
Supa doesn't know if it's some deeply ingrained, post-traumatic, psychologically based slave/massa-type fallout or what, but it just 'aint her steez. And just to keep it really real, Supa Sister has seen a pink dick before and she did not find it aesthetically pleasing. Or arousing. At all. Sure I've got that hypothetical list of celebrity white boys that I'd do,('cause some of them are pretty fucking cute, for white boys) but if it ever came down to it, I still haven't thought of the circumstance that would propel me to make such a move. Call me racist, childish, silly, unreasonably squeemish, limiting my options - whatever. Carry on, because Supa is probably alla that. So what.
Supa simply has a personal preference for the fine black male specimen, and don't misunderstand, any other men of color are still on the menu too. Just so long as their shit 'aint...pink.
Feel me?
24 comments:
1st BITCHES!!!!!
Ok now That I have staked my claim on the top spot-
Let me say THIS POST is one of the reasons I love you SUPA
It's cause you keep it REALLY REAL.
I feel what you are saying on the personal preference tip...
IT'S PERSONAL!!! So who eva don't like it- get over it!
@African imported, melanin-blessed, lovely bronze body
LOVE THIS LINE!!!
Let's see what did I miss...
*reading*
Unhunh...White Pac, funny!...Ron Goldman...erogenous zones!...Awww, fuck that!...oh, Xtasy...good, good...bye loser!
For the record, we're glad you've still available for pampering and general date type stuff
Signed,
Black United Men Scribing (B.U.M.S.)
KZ
Ewww as long as it ain't pink!!! OKAYYYYY!!!
my girl said pink....remember the Oprah episode when beige was mentioned LOL!!
ok hope you're thinking of these something specials up in your training
home early, baby is sick.
All I have to say to that is one word.
*dap*
Double **dap**
Look here, to the other folks that beg to differ; listen whatever floats your boat, but as for me and MINES. . .
I keeps it black.
Thanks for talking about the pink (er black) elephant in the room.
"...even though the basic attraction was there - the idea of an aroused naked white male approaching her African imported, melanin-blessed, lovely bronze body conjured up all kinds of visuals that to this day make me throw up in my mouth a little..."
CTFU Supa! I have had sex with ONE white boy and it was GOOD! He and I dated for a few months. He had had sex with a few black girls previously (though he,himself was as lily white in mannerisms and all other isms as you could get). But I liked the fact that he was real with his and just had a thing for me. But I felt the SAME. WAY you did pre-white boy. The dick was a VERY nice size and he knew what to do with it. So I was pretty happy about it. I eventually had to break it off with him,because....uh....er.... we WORKED together and HE could NOT control himself! I mean, like we would be in meetings and he would be staring a HOLE through me (no like a stare that makes others say "what the FUCK is he looking at?????) and he would be bringing me breakfast and coffee and making little innuendo type statements that if you were REEEEALLY paying attention, after hearing them (cuz he would make them at LEAST once a day in front of someone)htey would be able to tell we were fucking. AND MY BOSS IS A NOSY BITCH, so that shit COULD NOT continue! LMAO!!! So, I cut his shit short! LOL A sista can't AFFORD to lose her bread and butta! I still work with him and he and I are STILL cool. No one but my girl that used to work here knows about us either! Now, THAT's a way to end sum shit and move on! Loves it!
So, go on girl....try it if ya think it's worth your time
Yeah, the pinkness always gets me too. I always talk liked I'd be down in a minute, but haven't yet gone there...
what about if they have a white mamma?
Which way to we count the half breeds? Cuz if it's just skin color I've dated dudes that would give Powder a run for his money..I mean pale ass can't get a tan would turn red in the sun ass dudes, who were technically black or perhaps half black ( i really think who the mamma is makes a difference)
as for the full on caucasian, i've kissed a few, but the idea of us getting naked makes me real real nervous for some reason.
Nisa:
You are a hot a$$ mess. I think the white mamma doesn't count, I think she just means kinda sorta brother.
Or do you?
LOL @ these comments. Today you got a shout out from me!
I've considered dating outside my race to but I doubt I would ever REALLY do it. I likes that dark meat to ;-)
I'm feeling sick. "Sour Cream" sick.
i just think you are what your mamma is P don't get to set tripping on me!
If your mamma looks like me, you might feel a certain affinity and kindred...if your mamma looks like a white woman, 'cuz she is a white woman you might be different.
I used to count all half breeds as black..but I'm rethinking it!
Nope! Half-breeds do not qualify for automatic cool points. lol
Nisa/Tia
I love y'all!!!!
@ Tia: LOL @ Half Breeds!! HAHAHA!
u should have cber slaped that MF
You know what Nisa...I pondored on this when Malik was on the Real World. Sistas didn't like that he liked white women but I was like his Mama looks just like them....
I feel you
Supa, I'm giving you a cross-country high five for this here post.
A couple of the sisters in my book club are into 'Something New' but not the kid. Give me a brotha in all their tasty 31 flavors any day all day. I just can't get with the Caucazoids. And it's not about being racist or limiting myself it's all about what I like dammit. I don't like Ethiopian food so does that mean that I have to consider eating it? Hell no! Same goes for white boys. Hell no, thank you! Shoot, I'm pale enough as it is.
And speaking of pink penises...This is way TMI, but I was with a biracial dude once who had a two-tone dingaling--part pink, part light brown. That freaked me out needless to say.
OMG BUTTA! I could have DONE WITHOUT THAT VISUAL, OKAY!! LAWD HELP! LOL
But seriously, that is some fugged up mess right there. Two tone shall not touch Tia with even the tip, bay-beh.
These comments are too funny.
damn, supa...your blog is a cool journey of mental entertainment. glad to come across a real down-ass chick like you whose not prudish. crazy refreshing!
It has taken me this long to be able to respond to Butta's description of the two-toned, neopolitan-esque dick.
Now I FEEL SICK!!!!!!!
This topic is so on point...just the other day, i'm out, in the club, checkin everybody, and who's checkin me, but the white boy...okay, first off, he's cute, in sort of Brad Pitt sort of way...so we dance, and he gets cool points, cuz he smelling good too! Now i don't usually go for white men, though i have dated them in college, for dinner, for lunch and sent them on their way with neither a kiss or anything else for that matter, soooooo thats about all i wanted to do with them..but uhhhhh Biff is kinda sexy, he feeling me, i'm feelin the drinks, and 5 months of celibacy, and soooo we slow dancing and all of a sudden i got a wake up call...Biff says, "hey, you wanna go somewhere?" I say, "what?" He say, "lets find somewhere to talk." All of sudden i realize,and it is very clear to me...i need to get the hell out of there, and i tell Biff, "NO! I don't think so!" So i'm with you ladies, i don't do pink, even if i hadn't had none!
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